Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Everyone has their "thing" that they say when they are happy, sad, angry, excited, etc. Some say OMG
I say this to everyone, all the time no matter what the circumstance. I'm choosing to share this with you guys because of my last thoughtsicle. I'm on the phone with an acquaintance and she invites my boyfriend and I to her Thanksgiving party. After I explain to her my reasons for not being able to come, she quickly interjects with “So how long have you two been together anyway?” So nosey. I tell her because oh gosh she can be a real and her reaction was an Are you kidding me? moment.
She asks “Oh wow, five years, so how’s the sex?”
Are you kidding me with this?
1. What makes you think you can ask me that question?
- What makes you think I’m sexually active?
- Are you kidding me with this?
So after I let her have it, two minutes straight, I decided to ask her why she would assume we are having sex. The obvious answer… no one can be in a relationship for five years without having sex. Glad to say that I am living proof that a healthy fear of HIM and respect for myself has kept me out of that boat. Yay me!!!
This got me thinking, does everyone think I’m sexually active when I tell them how long I’ve been in a relationship? Yikes, that’s so not a good look for me.
How about you guys, do you automatically think couples are doing the deed when you hear about the length of time they have invested in their relationship?
SIDE NOTE: And if they aren’t doing the deed together, do you think they are getting their fix somewhere else, HEHE, trifling question I know.
Until next time,
Until next time,