Wednesday, December 02, 2009

Peeves

OMG! I swear people irk my nerves beyond imagination. I learned a long time ago that you can not please everyone. Also you can not be friends with everyone, being cool and being friends is two totally different levels (in my book anyways). Well when I was younger I always wanted to fit in with everyone, and to this day I try and make it a point to show everyone that I have no reservations about getting to know anyone, no matter how different they may be from me. But there is a line that gets crossed when people alter themselves and their personalities to fit in with a group of people. That phony fake nonsense gets me upset beyond belief.

I always use to battle with this until I realized I was not benefiting from pretending to be someone and something that I wasn't. From then on when I saw others doing the same thing it would just irk me because I know that it isn't worth it and you would just end up losing out in the ending because you change yourself to fit others that you forget who you really are. It's just a world of chaos.

Something else that pisses me off till I wanna scream is jealousy. It is my belief that jealousy is a nasty disease and a lot of people I come in contact with seem to be really really sick. I mean, everyone has their strengths and weakness, there is no reason to be jealous of someone else. If someone has more money or more "things" than you, there is no reason to be jealous because you don't know what that person did or does to get those things. Now I'll be honest when I see someone looking nice, or when I see one of my friends getting a lot of things that I would love to get I'm always like DAMN yo, what about me?!? But instead of getting jealous, I try and do things to fix myself up and remind myself that my time will come eventually. Perfection takes time, didn't you know, LOL.

When I see people getting jealous of me for some odd reason or another, I quickly try and nip it in the bud. There is no reason whatsoever to ever be jealous of me. I am a firm believer in the fact that each person has their very own thing to offer the world and being jealous of someone else means that you are not taking advantage of your own special something. Just a thought.

I'm done with my ranting, LOL.


Until next time, (I'll be shaking my head)



MM

8 comments:

G said...

I know how you feel I hate when people alter themselves around different people I mean just be yourself that just proves how fake and phony they are! Jealous people I just can’t even tolerate so more power to you that u even can tolerate them. I'm a big believer in karma and u know what they say, "karma will be a bigger bitch then me" or something along those lines.

Mrs.Young_fashion said...

LOL That's super cute, I should make that my tag line. I've only heard, what goes around comes around, but yours is much better.

J. Izzy said...

Ah, they say that Karma's a bitch, but Lady Luck's a whore; if you pay up, one will screw you less, and the other, more.

I love Envy, and how it's a Deadly Sin. If you think about, someone's damning 'emself to fire and brimstone just for hating on you. Yeah, that's the power you got over them then.

Anyways, isn't that just another form of code-switching? I figure it's a part of the herd mentality, anyways-- when one hangs around a group too often, one adopts the mannerisms of said group? Yeah, I never knew how to approach that, so I just usually have a crazyass persona that I wear at all times to blow through situations like that.

Mrs.Young_fashion said...

lol, I feel you

Shauntel said...

ok first of all let me say that you have my fave gyptian song up there ...love it...secondly i really can't stand people like that either. I have a friend(use that term loosely) like that everytime someone has something that's "hot" she always says i wish i had that or something to that extent. It's not that serious to me. If you don't have that then make what you have hot...sheesh

Therapeutic Musings said...

"I am a firm believer in the fact that each person has their very own thing to offer the world and being jealous of someone else means that you are not taking advantage of your own special something."

I like that. I've never thought of it like that before.

MilyMae said...

I really like Therapeatic Musing qoute! We definitely use that in the future. Anyways people that are "followes" always scare me, like I don't know I feel that they can't be trusted. I mean if you can't be trusted to make up your own mind, why would I trust with anything else?

getuneed said...

i really feel..